Win My Heart


I am a bit behind but will be catching up. It has been hectic here and if you have read any of my past posts or just subscribing to this one you know why I get behind and hectic!  Anyways the post for today is 5 ways to win my heart!

5 ways to Win my heart

  1. Buy me coffee! Seriously, I am a coffee drinker and will love you forever if you buy me coffee!
  2.  Spoil me – No i am not saying gifts and things. Though they are always nice. I mean love and attention. Cuddle me – I love to cuddle!
  3.  Never expect me to be anything other than who I am.  Accept me for me!
  4.  Be your self with me. Never pretend to be something you are not!
  5. Never Lie to me.. Always be up front and straight forward.  I do not like being lied to.

Those are just 5 Ways to win my heart. Though their is several and I am not going into all of them right now! ”






Starting off May with a Blog Challenge with My Pea from Forever Myself! We figured it would be interesting to do this together so we decided why not!

Today’s topic is a Recent Compliment! The most recent comment I guess would have to be from a lady who works at Taco Bell. We went in recently while Diana Visited for spring break and she said I looked beautiful with my hair cut the way it is now.
That made my day! Someone we met in passing to say something like that even though she does not really know anything about us! Yes, Kris tells me I am beautiful but that does not really make me content. When a friend or someone I don’t know says it I tend to smile more. Why I am not really sure. Just seems to be the way it works! I know a few people who are the same way!  Hearing others say thing about you that do not know you generally makes one feel good about them self! I know it does me!

Just Maybe

Sometimes I wonder if Just Maybe, I am asking to much from my partner but then again I should have to ask for much.. Hell When you are basically told they do not find you attractive your world crumbles around you! Ok, Just maybe I am not the prettiest girl in the world, the skinniest or the most perfect face and hair.. I have had 3 kids and if you want perfect go find a Barbie Doll.. I am far from perfect. I make mistakes, I am flawed. I do not have the perfect Body, I have stretch marks, I have scars and I have many imperfections. I do not have a itty bitty waist! I know i am not perfect but I am simply who I am!

I just need to remember that I am stronger than i am. I need to remember that I am the only one who is going to control my happiness! I am the only one who has the ability to change this! Though it is hard when you give someone so much and get so less in return!