I do not have just one moment that changed me. Their is several that actually did. My children of course changed Who I was in general. I was not only responsible for me but I was responsible for three Kids. Three amazing children that I love dearly and would do anything for but that is any parent. Honestly I have not met a parent who would not do anything for their children! Though that is not all of this.
Honestly the moment that I decided to leave My Ex Husband. That moment changed me. I had to learn to live on my own and do things on my own. I did not have someone to support me and help me get through the hardest times. I managed to over come so many obstacles and what ever else that stood in my way. The biggest one was leaving West Virginia. I had a place in mind and that is where I wanted to be no matter what. So I packed up what I could and moved my self to Indiana. Granted I had very little money but I did it. I got to Indiana and I was ready for my new life. I got a job, a place to live all on my own.. Yes it took me a while to actually get on my feet but you know what I did it.
Along the way it took me some time to try and find my self so to speak! I fell in love and was broken in the process. That was not a mistake because it taught me to be a stronger person and to stand on my own. I think with that the relationship is something I wanted but was not the way I had envisioned it. I mean how do you be with a person you never see? So being on my own taught me to be a stronger person!